Double Standards

Honestly, this is a really big topic for me, especially growing up in the community and generation that I'm growing up in now. Double standards were put there by a guy because he was either mad or just sad at a female. Double standards is a thing that degrades and minimizes a females chance at the world while the guy gets all the good stuff. For example, I have a female friend who loves hanging with guys for whatever reason, whether females start too much drama and/or she just likes the vibe that guys don't really care what's going on. So anyways, she gets called a whore and a thot (Thot is a Boston term for That Hoe Over There) just because she hangs around a lot of guys. Next, I have a friend who is a guy, and hangs with a lot of females. While he's with these females, he like to flirt and touch and other stuff WHILE HE HAS A GIRL. Now, when he got called out on it, they told him, "You're the man!". Now explain to me why a female can't chill with a bunch of guys WITHOUT flirting or doing anything wrong, but the guy could flirt, touch, kiss, and maybe even have sex with another female WHILE HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND?... We take these things way too lightly. Same thing in sports; females dance in short skirts and tight shirts to entertain a crowd while the men portray these heroic athletic people. But what about when the females are playing, and portraying heroic athletic people? Where are the men to dance around in shorts and tight shirts to feel how degraded the women feel when men are calling out to them making them worthless? 

When Your Man Talks To Other Girls

Ok, I think we can all agree, or all guys could agree that this isn't a big deal in our eyes, but females think it's a bad thing. The good thing about having a sister and a mother is that I get to ask them for their point of views on certain debatable cases like this one. First thing is first; if your girl doesn't like the girl you're talking to, then stop. why spend time talking to a girl you don't know, when you already have a girl. Secondly, if you have a girl, you shouldn't be talking to any other girl, but YOUR girl. Like it's just common sense, you have a girl, and a relationship consists of only 2 people, not 3 or 4. 

First Blog

Hello, my name is Eric Perez. I'm a 17 year old kid living in Boston, Massachusetts in a cramped, but roomy apartment with my mother, my older sister, my baby brother, and our puppy. Although I'm only 17, I have had many experiences with females and gotten to really understand what they're thinking and why they think that way. Through this blog, I want guys older and younger than me to learn from me and to also teach me things I didn't know. I want guys and females to read this and really learn and take away from this blog, again, what and why females think the way they do and why they think that way.